How often does a man pre ejaculate

Premature ejaculation is where a man ejaculates (comes) too quickly during sexual intercourse. It's a common ejaculation problem.

What is premature ejaculation ?

A study involving 500 couples found the average time for ejaculation was about 5-and-a-half minutes after starting sex. This time could be longer for men who have sex with men.

International guidelines define premature ejaculation as regularly ejaculating within 1 minute of entering your partner.

However, it's up to you and your partner to decide if you're happy with the time it takes you to ejaculate.

If ejaculation times are causing you persistent distress then it's a problem that can be helped with treatment.

Types of premature ejaculation

There are 2 types of premature ejaculation:

  • primary premature ejaculation – where you have always had the problem
  • secondary premature ejaculation (or "acquired premature ejaculation") – where you recently developed the problem

The causes of primary premature ejaculation are often psychological, such as having a traumatic sexual experience at an early age. Secondary premature ejaculation can be caused by both psychological and physical factors. Physical causes can include drinking too much alcohol and inflammation of the prostate gland (prostatitis).

Treatment

If your premature ejaculation is caused by a physical condition, treating the underlying condition should help. A GP can suggest possible treatment options.

Treating premature ejaculation caused by psychological factors can be more challenging. But most men who persevere with treatment find the problem resolves.

Self-help

There are a number of self-help techniques you can try before getting medical help.

These include:

  • masturbating 1 to 2 hours before having sex
  • using a thick condom to help decrease sensation
  • taking a deep breath to briefly shut down the ejaculatory reflex (an automatic reflex of the body, during which you ejaculate)
  • having sex with your partner on top (to allow them to pull away when you're close to ejaculating)
  • taking breaks during sex and distracting yourself by thinking about something completely different

If you're in a long-term relationship, you may benefit from having couples therapy.

You'll be encouraged to explore issues that may be affecting your relationship and be given advice on how to resolve them. You may also be shown techniques that can help you "unlearn" the habit of premature ejaculation.

Medicine

Selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) can be used if self-help techniques do not improve the problem. SSRIs are mainly used to treat depression, but one of their side effects is delaying ejaculation.

Dapoxetine is an SSRI specifically designed to treat premature ejaculation. It can be used "on demand". You'll usually be advised to take it between 1 and 3 hours before sex, but not more than once a day.

If dapoxetine does not work, your GP may recommend trying another SSRI on an "off-label" basis. This is when a medicine is used for a different purpose than it was licensed for. Doctors can prescribe an off-label medicine if they decide it's in the patient's best interest.

Other SSRIs that may be prescribed for premature ejaculation include paroxetine, sertraline or fluoxetine. You'll usually need to take these types of SSRIs for 1 or 2 weeks before gaining the full effects.

Anaesthetic creams and sprays such as lidocaine or prilocaine cream can help by making your penis less sensitive. Using an anaesthetic cream with a condom can be particularly effective. A GP should be able to recommend a suitable cream.

Page last reviewed: 21 July 2020
Next review due: 21 July 2023

Contrary to popular belief, sperm can leak into pre-cum, which can lead to pregnancy. Using a barrier method or other form of contraception may help reduce the risk of unintended pregnancy.

Pre-cum isn’t something you can control. The fluid release is an involuntary bodily function that happens right before ejaculation.

This is why the withdrawal method doesn’t work as well at preventing pregnancy as other birth control options, such as pills or condoms.

Even if you pull out right before you climax during vaginal intercourse, pre-cum is still likely to enter your partner’s vagina, which can lead to unintended pregnancy.

Some research estimates that around 20% of people who use the withdrawal method will become pregnant in a year.

Plus, according to a 2017 report from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), nearly 19% of unmarried males in the United States reported using the withdrawal method.

Overall, the failure rate for this method is about 4% with perfect use and 20% with typical use.

Before climax, the penis releases a fluid known as pre-ejaculation, or pre-cum. Pre-cum comes out right before semen, which has live sperm that can lead to pregnancy.

Many people believe that pre-cum doesn’t include sperm, so there’s no risk of unintended pregnancy. But that is not true.

A lot of misinformation exists about this topic, but the short answer is: Yes, it’s possible to get pregnant from pre-cum.

Here is a closer look at the likelihood of pregnancy upon exposure to pre-cum in several different scenarios:

You’re right: Pre-cum doesn’t actually contain any sperm. However, it’s possible for sperm to leak into pre-cum.

Pre-cum is a lubricant produced by a gland in the penis, which is released before ejaculation. Semen may linger in the urethra after ejaculation and mix with pre-cum while it’s on its way out.

In fact, a 2016 study found mobile sperm present in the pre-cum of nearly 17% of its participants. Another older study published in 2011 found mobile sperm in 37% of pre-cum samples given by 27 participants.

Peeing before sex may help flush out any leftover semen, reducing the chance sperm will appear in the pre-cum.

The short answer is yes: You can get pregnant from pre-cum even if you’re not ovulating.

Although pregnancy is most likely to happen during ovulation, sperm can actually live inside your body for as long as 5 days. This means that if sperm is inside your reproductive tract before ovulation, it’s possible it’ll still be there and alive when you do ovulate.

Ovulation typically happens around the middle of your menstrual cycle. This can be anywhere from 7-14 days before you start your next period.

Since sperm has a 5-day life span inside your body, if you have sex regularly for 5 days before as well as on the day you ovulate — known as “the fertile window” — you have a higher chance of becoming pregnant.

People with irregular periods may have more difficulty knowing when they’re ovulating and fertile.

The pull-out method isn’t an effective way to prevent pregnancy. If you do use it, then it may be helpful to have emergency contraception (EC) handy in your medicine cabinet.

EC can help prevent pregnancy up to 5 days after having sex without a condom or other barrier method. That’s because it delays or prevents ovulation from happening in the first place.

This means your mature egg won’t be released to be fertilized. But it is not intended as a method for contraception. It makes more sense to use a more reliable form of contraception to prevent an unintended pregnancy from happening in advance.

Two types of EC can be obtained over the counter or through a doctor. They include:

Hormonal EC pills

You can take hormonal emergency contraceptive pills up to 5 days after having sex without a condom or other barrier methods. They’re most effective when you take them within the first 72 hours.

Hormonal EC pills are safe to take but, like hormonal birth control pills, have some side effects. This can include:

  • nausea
  • vomiting
  • breast tenderness
  • stomach pain
  • headache
  • dizziness
  • fatigue

You can purchase EC pills at your local drugstore. They can cost anywhere from $20 to $60, depending if you buy a generic or name-brand product.

If you’re insured, you can call a doctor to request a prescription. EC pills are considered preventive care, so they’re often free with insurance.

Emergency IUD contraception

The Copper-T is an intrauterine device (IUD) that can also work as emergency contraception.

According to Planned Parenthood, a nonprofit group that promotes reproductive healthcare, the Copper-T IUD can reduce your risk of becoming pregnant by more than 99%. This makes it more effective than hormonal EC pills.

A doctor can insert the Copper-T IUD up to 5 days after sex without a condom or other barrier method to prevent pregnancy. Plus, as a form of long-term birth control, the Copper-T IUD can last for 5 to 10 years, depending on the type.

Although the Copper-T IUD works better than EC pills, the steep cost of insertion can be a barrier. If you’re uninsured, it can cost up to $1,300 in the United States. Most insurance plans will cover the Copper-T IUD for free or at a reduced cost.

Although the withdrawal method may be effective at times, there’s still a chance you may become pregnant from pre-cum. If you think you may be pregnant, you can take an at-home pregnancy test to find out for sure.

You may want to take an at-home test right away, but that can be too soon. Most doctors recommend you wait until after the first day of your missed period to take a pregnancy test. For the most accurate result, you should wait until the week after your missed period to test.

People who don’t have regular periods should wait to test until at least 4 weeks after having sex without a condom or other barrier method.

You should confirm your results with a doctor. Although a positive result is almost always accurate, a negative test result isn’t as reliable. You may have tested too early or might be taking medications that have affected the results.

A doctor may have you take a urine test, blood test, or both to determine if you’re pregnant or not. If you are pregnant, make sure to speak with the doctor about your options.

Your chance of becoming pregnant from pre-cum may be slim, but it can still happen. Sperm can still be present in the urethra and mix with pre-cum that’s released before ejaculation.

If you use the withdrawal method, keep in mind that around 20% of people will become pregnant over the course of a year when using this method.

Choose a more reliable method of contraception if you want to avoid pregnancy, and consider keeping emergency contraception on hand if needed.

See a doctor if you have any concerns or have a positive pregnancy test. The doctor can walk you through your options for family planning, abortion, and future birth control.

How long does it take for a guy to pre

A study involving 500 couples found the average time for ejaculation was about 5-and-a-half minutes after starting sex. This time could be longer for men who have sex with men. International guidelines define premature ejaculation as regularly ejaculating within 1 minute of entering your partner.

How much pre come is normal?

There's no "normal" or "abnormal" amount of precum. A person does not control how much precum is released or when it comes out. On average, most people leak up to 4 milliliters (ml) of fluid. 1 Most people don't notice when precum is released.

How do you know if he pre come?

There's no way to know when there is or isn't sperm in pre-cum — that's one reason why the withdrawal method (pulling out) isn't the best at preventing pregnancy, even if they pull out before ejaculation (cumming). If you want to prevent pregnancy, put on a condom before your penis and vagina touch.